The negative self-talk I hear executives use to talk to themselves is often mentally destructive.
Most negative self-talk in the context of a job search comes in the following 6 forms:
* "He/she is too busy to talk to me."
* "What I have done is not important enough to reach out."
* "I have nothing to say on social media."
* "My credentials should speak for themselves. I shouldn't have to say it."
* "I sell myself best in person. I just need the meeting."
* "I hate networking."
If this resonates with you, ask yourself, would you talk to your co-worker, boss, client, friend or family member this way?
Then why do you talk to yourself in this way.
Be nicer to yourself.
Replace your negative self-talk with the pragmatic truths below:
(To be clear, these are not positive affirmations...I know I will lose you with those...heck, I will lose me with those LOL...these are pragmatic truths to say to yourself)
* People want to hear from you.
* What you have done is of interest to the right audience.
* You have something to offer people on social media.
* Having to talk about your great credentials does not mean your credentials are not great! Some people just need the opportunity to learn about how great you are.
* If you can sell yourself in person, you can learn how to fabulously present yourself in other mediums. Give yourself time to learn how.
* I kinda hate networking, too. :) However, we have come up with a way to make it doable. It will never probably be a great pleasure for you to do...but if we can make it easier, wouldn’t you want to learn?
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